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Erik's avatar

"Nobody Wants This" is so stupid I watched it twice. The gentile woman character grew up in Los Angeles but finds Jews as mysterious as space aliens. Seriously, not one Jewish friend to invite you to a bat mitzvah when you were a kid? Written by a gentile woman who converted, the show is not kind to any of the female characters, Jew or Gentile, which I find kind of refreshing. It brings to mind HL Mencken - a misogynist is a man who hates women as much as women do.

All the men are kind of innocent lovable dopes. The main couple are ten years too old for the story. The Jewish parents had to be Russian immigrants to make sense being super Jewy parents of an 80s kid. The conflict is all artificial and manufactured. The main guy dumps his fiancé for not much, and is instantly completely committed to the shiksa goddess. The Jewish women are mean to the gentile ladies yet powerless against their blond hair.

It's big hit

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Jews have been treated better in the US than in any other political community since the Diaspora, so it's a bit rich that they identify with racial/ethnic groups which actually have a reason to complain (i.e., Indians and blacks). Part of this is due to post-Holocaust paranoia, which I can completely understand. However, since the late 60s, the US has been the greatest ally that Israel has, which undermines the justification for the wacky Jewish leftism of the American Jewish population. Maybe the point to be taken here is that, as Steve has already mentioned, stereotypes are only successful when they are generally true. So, Jewish women (who are the subject of this post) get characterized as "domineering, whining and otherwise repellent" because quite a few of them are domineering, whining and otherwise repellent.

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