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SlowlyReading's avatar

I think the 'poly' thing has its own internal 'coalition of the fringes' problems, even leaving aside the African and Muslim angle.

> de facto polygyny = alpha-male / male-dominated harems and/or 'serial monogamy', a tale as old as time, both white (Boris Johnson, Elon Musk) and black (Nick Cannon, Antonio Cromartie, Travis Henry) versions - women both publicly hate and secretly love them

> "swingers" = right-coded, military/police, Florida Man types, culmination of 'libertarian barstool conservatism' (Ashli Babbitt, Christian Ziegler)

> 'polyamory' = genderfluid Brooklyn 'cuddle puddle' types, culmination of 'gender theory' as bioleninist revenge of the spiteful mutants (stereotypically unattractive, masculine women & feminine men)

> 'open marriage' = blue-state AWFL laptop-class women, culmination of feminism (Miranda July, Molly Roden Winter)

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Frau Katze's avatar

NYT is no doubt pushing what they hope is the next big thing but I have my doubts.

That story is not a happy one. The wife turns out to be a lesbian and wants an open marriage (they have a 5-year old daughter). By the end of the story the man has met another woman in the open marriage and decides he likes her better. End of marriage. The lesbian doesn’t seem bothered. No word on what the kid thinks.

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