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Acilius's avatar

A member of my family moved to Hollywood to be an actress. She landed a number of small parts in TV shows and some work as an extra in features, but could never make a living at it, so after a few years she went back to school and became an occupational therapist focusing on helping first time mothers adjust to the demands of their new role. She married a movie producer, whom she finds to be a fine husband and a great dad to their daughter. When they first got together, her friends all asked her if she would revive her acting career by appearing in his movies, to which she would reply, "Have you SEEN his movies?" She thinks it's wonderful he enjoys his work and is proud of his success, but that part of his life is strictly Guy Stuff as far as she is concerned, and she is very happy not being part of it.

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Erik's avatar

Women are attracted to men based on what they say and do. Men are attracted to women based on how they look and...uh...

We go to movies, even action movies, (no homo) to fall in love.

One of my favorite re-watchable movies of (I was about to write 'recent years' then realized I'm old) is "Almost Famous". At its heart is the story of a woman desired by two very different men, yet most of the interesting dialogue and action is of and by the men.

I think this is even how the average woman prefers to take in the story. The one man demonstrates how he is a sexy cool cad of a rock star with far less substance than he thinks, while the other shows his less flashy talent and promising future while being too young and un-cool, more of a friend vibe who doesn't understand he has no chance with such a goddess .

The girl is quiet and mysterious (thus little dialogue)...not the most classically beautiful but somehow has a quality that drives men mad. That quality is never going to be witty dialogue

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